Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Alan's New Writer's Website!

It's been a while since we've updated this site. Those of you who know us are aware of how much has gone on...Kaylin's 1st birthday, her first steps, her first words. She's a fun, crazy little girl right now and we're enjoying every second of being her mommy and daddy...as well as the beautiful relationship we share with her birth family, who are 100% our extended family at this point.

Over the past few months, I (Alan) have begun work on a fictional novel that tells the beginning to end story of our journey toward becoming parents through domestic adoption. To be clear, it's not a straight up autobiography. It's full of completely fictional characters, but it's based on our true story.

Read more at my new writer's website: alanatchison.com


Monday, April 23, 2012

Mommy's 30th!

Mommy has finally joined Daddy in the glorious decade of the 30s! This past Saturday, we had a bunch of friends over and threw a surprise 30th birthday party for Tara. The most exciting part was getting to share in the moment with Kaylin's birth family, and being able to introduce Kaylin's birthmother to a bunch of our close friends.

After a few weeks of planning, this was the culmination.









Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Kaylin Beth's Baptism!

On February 26th, our beautiful little girl was baptized at our church. Thankfully, she didn't cry or fuss during what is normally her nap time. We were privileged to be able to share in the moment with not only our parents and siblings, but also Kaylin's birth family. The video below was filmed by Kaylin's birth uncle. (Thanks TJ!)



"See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are." 
-1 John 3:1

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Precious Little Kaylin

Below is a beautiful poem written by Kaylin's birth grandmother.


Precious Little Kaylin

Precious little Kaylin, a gift from God above
An angel sent from heaven, uniting families in their love
Our Father of the universe, ordained you long ago
He gave you exceptional parents, to guide you as you grow

Your daddy shows a wealth of strength and a boldness of his own
Your mommy shines with love and care -- characteristics that are grown
You have a special birth mom, who loves you with her life
She's bright and walks with confidence, finding blessings from her strife

No doubt you'll be a blend of these, as well as so much more
I pray you heed their teachings of what life will have in store
Your story may be different from others that you know
A testimony filled with love, that you alone will show

I pray that as your life unfolds, that God will be your core
And you will never have a doubt, how much you are adored
The Lord will guide you every day, with His mercy, grace, and love
And you our precious Kaylin, have already glorified Him above

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Happy Baby!

Well, Kaylin is now approaching 4 months old and time is really starting to fly by. She's now a good 13 lbs. and is routinely sleeping through the night. Most times, we have to wake her up in the morning. Yes, I'm bragging. It's unbelievable just how relational this girl is. She'll make eye contact with you when you enter the room and smiles and giggles non stop! Don't believe me? Check this out...

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Thankful for a Shower!

Ok, that's a really weird title, I know.

My hope was to combine two monumental events that took place over the past few weeks: a baby shower and Kaylin's first Thanksgiving.

On November 19th, we had a huge baby shower thrown for us at Tara's parents' house in Allentown, PA to celebrate the homecoming of our little peanut. The event was attended by much of our combined families and several of our friends. All in all, some 60 or so people came, which was amazing considering it was such a busy time of year. What's really interesting is that baby showers usually occur before a baby is born and often times with just ladies present. But Tara and I tend to go against the grain. Not only was the event attended by both men and women, but everyone got to meet and interact with little Kaylin...or at least as much as one can interact with a month and a half old infant. Kaylin pretty much slept through the whole thing anyway...

There were a number of highlights from that day. We got to briefly share our adoption story in front of the whole group, as well as the incredible open relationship with now share with Kaylin's birth family, which continues to blow us away. We had a make-shift photo booth, courtesy of Tara's sister Lindsay. And we ate a ton of great food made by Tara's mother. We are so grateful to our families for organizing this shower for us, especially to Tara's parents, Jim & Mary Ann, who went above and beyond to turn their house into baby party central.


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We spent Kaylin's first Thanksgiving as one big family with our parents and siblings...and our dog Bailey of course. Unfortunately, Kaylin was not able to take part in the eating of turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, and various desserts, but she was a big consumer of formula that day, and for the time being, I guess that will have to suffice. We did however, dress her up in various Thanksgiving outfits that she will surely be embarrassed by as a teenager when I show them to all her friends. As Kaylin's dad, I'm already looking forward to that day.

In all seriousness though, we could not be more thankful -- especially at this time of year -- to have become parents of the most beautiful and incredible baby girl and to have such a terrific relationship with her birth family, a wonderful and inspiring group of people who we already consider close family. There simply are no words to adequately describe our gratitude and joy.



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Ok, I know I said this entry was just about the baby shower and Thanksgiving, but this past weekend, Kaylin also attended her first wedding. And well...I just have to share. Our dear friends, the newly crowned Alan & Erin Popoli, got married in an beautiful space called the Skybox, which is in a large, newly renovated building called 2424 Studios that also houses our church's location. The ceremony and reception went off without fail and Daddy was even in the wedding party and got to share in our first ever father/daughter slow dance. Aside from the bride and groom, I'd like to think Kaylin was the other main attraction of the night.